TW: Preventing (sexual) assault, rape.
We might be beginning to see the normality of life return, with fresher events coming to a close and big events in full swing, however for some people, this sudden return to normality has been really daunting. In particular there are almost two years of people who have not been able to go clubbing before this week, and are now suddenly allowed to go out! I personally enjoy going to different clubs, however, I am fully aware that it is not everyone’s idea of fun, and sometimes this can be due to the fears surrounding safety. Therefore, this is a bit of a guide to help you feel a bit safer on your nights out, stepping into clubs.
Use Tracking Apps with Friends
At uni, our friends, particularly housemates, become our family. Apps such as Life360 or even just Find my iPhone are useful to help track you on a night out, particularly if you’re lost or having to Uber back alone. Life360 in particular links emergency tools to help you if you’re in danger, as well as ensuring your housemates know where you are when you’re coming home.
If you’re leaving the club or event alone, text your housemates or people that you came with a screenshot of your Uber’s registration number, and make sure your tracking is on. If you’re unable to get sorted in advance, Whatsapp has live tracking so enable this!
Register to Text in an Emergency
Right now: text ‘Register’ to 999 to enable texting 999 in an emergency. This allows you to text rather than call if you find yourself in a dangerous situation and need an emergency service without talking. If you register now, you will protect yourself in future!
Carry Panic Alarms
If you’re back on campus pick up a free panic alarm from Senate House. I believe IHH has helped to provide a free panic alarm in most on-campus accommodations! Otherwise, buy one online for as little as £6. If you find yourself in an uncomfortable situation, pressing the button will set off an alarm which will not only bring others’ attention your way, but also hopefully get rid of the person making you uncomfortable.
Safety in Numbers
The golden rule is safety in numbers. As much as possible, stick with the people that you went out with. Where this is not possible, get in contact with them, and if there are other people you know stick with them. If you know no one else, either find your way to the entrance where staff are, or stick with a group of people who you feel comfortable around and explain the situation. Stay with them until your friends find you. Do not, where unnecessary, go off on your own to find your group.
Stay as safe as you can…
Unfortunately, many bad things do happen, often when alcohol is involved. These tips will not prevent you from having a dangerous encounter, but hopefully it reduces the risk of it happening, and reduces the likelihood of it escalating.
Big events are meant to be fun, so try not to let this advice scare you more. We hope that by doing these things, you will be able to enjoy the life that you’ve put on hold for 18 months.
---- Mary Collingridge, Women's Officer
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